Picking up from the last post, when the spiral hits bottom and crises is upon us, we often do the wrong thing. Mark did some of that, but then he …
I Know A Man Who Changed
I tend to doubt people who say they’ve changed. I counsel men to refrain from talking about change to their wives. When men tell their wives they will change or …
Connecting With Your Disconnected Dad: Dealing With Your Pain
In the second ‘Connecting With Your Disconnected Dad’ post I cautioned those with disconnected dads that you had to be in a place personally to engage their dads. I gave …
Enter Humbly For The Best Christmas
Humility looks good on anyone who dares to wear it. No matter what is going on in your household, or the households you will visit this Christmas, if you will …
Connecting With Your Disconnected Dad: A Few Simple Steps
We learned in my last post that your disconnected dad has nothing to do with you. It’s his issue, his challenge to overcome. But and he doesn’t even have to …
Connecting With Your Disconnected Dad: It Starts With You
Regardless your age, if you have a disconnected dad, you’ve probably longed to get to know him, to feel loved by him, or just get a sense that you matter to …
The Absolute Necessity of Patience
I’m reminded nearly every day that patience is last on my list of character traits. Even if I seem patient on the outside, I’m feeling pressure to move forward on …
A Disconnected Culture: Is Masculinity Under Attack?
I was talking to someone recently about my book and the idea of the Disconnected Man and he asked me a thought-provoking question that I hadn’t thought about. He asked, …
Are You Afraid to Offend Your Disconnected Spouse?
Today I want to say a few things about taking offense. And this goes back to a conversation I had with one my closest male friends several years ago. It’s …
A Thought For Those Continually Hurt By A Clueless Spouse
People hurt people. It has often been said that the closer we are to another, the more often, and more painful the hurt. Marriage, being the most intimate of human …