Holiday gatherings can be difficult for disconnected men and their families. Spending extended time with family and friends, some they rarely see, can be very challenging. Holidays are special times …
7 Pre-Conflict Self Examination Questions or How To Be A Hero When Conflict Comes
Been on an airplane lately? Are you the guy I sit next to that’s on the edge of his seat in rapt attention while the flight attendants rehearse the pre-flight …
Getting A ‘Like’ From God
When we look for the approval of others we are asking them to use their imperfect vision to judge our outward performance. They can’t see our hearts. Our actions often …
Small Ways To Help Your Disconnected Man Connect
Connected men may not always know your needs. They are not always available to meet them. But they know how to emotionally and relationally connect with you most of the …
Keep Suffering – Regardless of Response
That sounds like the stupid opposite of what we hear everyday in our self-gratification culture, doesn’t it? Keep suffering? What in the world are you talking about? I could have …
Regrets Can Be Good, If…
Regrets – have any? I think the only folks who don’t might be practiced sociopaths. Most everyone else does, and we do different things with them. Some allow regret to …
[Part 2] Planning to Overcome Fear
This is a follow up to the post ‘Overcoming Fear In Your Relationships’. That post addressed our fears of taking action in our relationships. It’s essential to familiarize yourself with …
Be Meek – Regardless of Response
Can anyone hear sentences like the ones below without cringing? ‘Look at all the things I do for you.’ ‘If it weren’t for me, you’d be __________(fill in the blank)’ …
Overcoming Fear In Your Relationships
Fear is paralyzing. Fear may be the single most limiting emotion we experience. Think of all the things you could have done if it weren’t for being afraid. Think of everything that …
Learning How To Change (Follow Up to ‘Two Great Reasons To Escape…’)
I promised in an earlier post that I would tell you how learning to change happened for me. Here we go. I can tell you how learning started but I …