How did that last argument go? Was it hysterical, historical, his fault, her fault? If any of these actually describe the argument, it probably didn’t go well. If it was …
Messy As Hell
It’s messy as hell to get involved in other people’s lives. Loving people enough to be in their lives means you get close to all the darkness that lurks in …
Be Content – Regardless of Response
Do you struggle with discontentment? Does your spouse? Do either of you find yourselves thinking ‘I wish’ about your marriage? Ever have any of these or similar thoughts knock on …
If Jesus Feels The Way I Do
I’m away from my wife right now to visit my son and go to the dentist, about a three hour drive from home. I had a great dinner with him …
Husbands Can Destroy The Negative Voices Plaguing Their Wives
Talking to a friend today reminded me of something that husbands need to keep in mind. Women have a thousand voices shouting at their souls, accusing them of being inadequate. …
Believe (in the relationship) – Regardless of Response
When one or both people in a relationship stop believing in the relationship, help is hard to come by. Relationships end when we stop believing there’s a need for them. …
Be Kind – Regardless Of Response
Kindness is beautiful. I’m struck every time I see it. People with kind faces are especially attractive. Gentle gestures, sympathetic smiles, knowing eyes, knees bent to help and soft words …
Two Great Reasons To Escape The Deceptive Comfort of Disconnection
Relationships often bring troubles and drama we didn’t ask for. And who wants more drama in their life! The deeper we go into relationship, the more open and vulnerable we …
Forgive – Regardless of Response
The longer you wait to forgive, the more likely you will be corrupted. There are as many shades of offense and forgiveness as there are stars in the heavens but …
Love – Regardless of Response
The revelation stuck. I can’t help but tell you about it. It was the most important relational lesson I think I’ve ever learned. The lesson is simple to understand, becoming …