I promised in an earlier post that I would tell you how learning to change happened for me. Here we go. I can tell you how learning started but I …
Be Forgetful – Regardless of Response (Or, ‘How to Argue Real Good’)
How did that last argument go? Was it hysterical, historical, his fault, her fault? If any of these actually describe the argument, it probably didn’t go well. If it was …
Messy As Hell
It’s messy as hell to get involved in other people’s lives. Loving people enough to be in their lives means you get close to all the darkness that lurks in …
Be Content – Regardless of Response
Do you struggle with discontentment? Does your spouse? Do either of you find yourselves thinking ‘I wish’ about your marriage? Ever have any of these or similar thoughts knock on …
Believe (in the relationship) – Regardless of Response
When one or both people in a relationship stop believing in the relationship, help is hard to come by. Relationships end when we stop believing there’s a need for them. …
Two Great Reasons To Escape The Deceptive Comfort of Disconnection
Relationships often bring troubles and drama we didn’t ask for. And who wants more drama in their life! The deeper we go into relationship, the more open and vulnerable we …
Forgive – Regardless of Response
The longer you wait to forgive, the more likely you will be corrupted. There are as many shades of offense and forgiveness as there are stars in the heavens but …
Love – Regardless of Response
The revelation stuck. I can’t help but tell you about it. It was the most important relational lesson I think I’ve ever learned. The lesson is simple to understand, becoming …